[Sad?Old Hippie]

Defo glad 2 hear it peeps...my theory is that if u wotch soaps...t worst 2 bein eastenders n coro then u r seriously lackin sumthin in ur own life n need 2 make it up by watchin that drivel...tv 4 mindless sad lived peeps...only my opinion tho

Give me Top Gear n Jeremy Clarkson anyday

[Sad?Old Hippie]

N as 4 sittin 4 hours on end playin computer games....Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez!!!

[paulalwayssearchin]

I always use the excuse that Im using them to keep my reflexes sharp......ha ha!!!!!

And as for soaps, whats the point of them??? Got enough stuff in my own life to keep me entertained without watching other people's fictional day to day lives!!!! I just dont get em.....so there!

[Sad?Old Hippie]

Soaps...ugh...deplore em meself...my ex-wife used 2 wotch Emmerdale, Corro, Eastenders n Brookside all in 1 go...2 hours of mind numbin sh*t...enuff 2 fry any1's brain...yeah...wots t point?

As said...sum peeps ave so little in their lives they need this false interaction...trouble is it stops being fantasy and starts being real...I mean, wot wos Tony Blair thinkin when he called 4 Dierdree (Corro) 2 b released from prison...jeeeeeeeeeeeeez...enuff said!

[62microbus]

Anyone else noticed that in the snake game the score goes down sometimes then comes back up later in the game. does it in oprea and IE.

[Sad?Old Hippie]

Originally Posted by Ally

Remember that I have such a sad life that I can spend hours each day playing Tetris until I finally beat that unbelievable score of yours.

Tragic...u liv in this wunderfull place n u lead a 'sad' life

It's 'sad' cause of ur own makin...uve bin given so much help n support 2 get u off t ground down ere n u've just sat back on ur ass n dun nuthin 'cept abuse t peeps tryin 2 help u...

Wot cums around goes around...wen I'm sayin bye 2 u as u head back up North wot I said 2 u a few months ago will ave happened

U need a serious shot of real life puttin in2 u...u cud ave bin sorted n established down ere by now but ur on t verge of headin out of ere...I've dun my best 4 u n so has Allison...t way u r at hers is mind bogglin...u were on 2 such a gud thing there n u've blew it

Time 2 get real Ally...kick urself up t ass hard, shake urself n wake up

Aint fallen out wiv ya...will still help u all I can but u cant help sum1 who wont help themselves

Sad life...sad waste more like

[Ally]

It would be really nice if you could explain to me what I have done that has clearly made you so angry with me. How exactly have I "abused" everyone who has helped me? Because if I have, I have certainly not meant to, but I would like to know why you think I have. I wanted to be alone yesterday but since when does everyone get angry with me for wanting to be alone?

Also, why are you saying I "could have been" sorted and established here, when I have now got a proper job? Why are you saying this to me now, instead of before when I didn't have a job? Surely I am helping myself?

[Sad?Old Hippie]

Originally Posted by Ally

It would be really nice if you could explain to me what I have done that has clearly made you so angry with me. How exactly have I "abused" everyone who has helped me? Because if I have, I have certainly not meant to, but I would like to know why you think I have. I wanted to be alone yesterday but since when does everyone get angry with me for wanting to be alone?

Also, why are you saying I "could have been" sorted and established here, when I have now got a proper job? Why are you saying this to me now, instead of before when I didn't have a job? Surely I am helping myself?

By abuse I mean ur treatment of us, ur friends. Allison employed u 2 take t weight of t kids from her...remember I 'pep talked' u b4 u moved there n told u 2 show willin n make her wunder how she eva got along wivout u...u shud b sortin t kids out in t mornin n after school, keepin t house as clean n tidy as poss, etc yet u do nuthin.

Nuthin wrong wiv time alone but yesterday wos just sheer ignorance...u cud ave at least poked ur head out of ur room n said hello...not t first time uve dun it either. Also u were meant 2 babysit 4 Anne n pulled out at t last minute forcin Allison 2 do it n all cause u cudnt take ur laptop...u dont treat peeps that way Ally n u lost £10 2 boot!

U cud ave bin sorted n established if u'd ave dun t things I said above. Anne wanted 2 employ u wen u left Allisons but has changed her mind after seein ur lazy ways. 2 ur credit u've got a job but it's not proper...its only part time n that wont pay ur way wen u ave 2 find ur own place n I bet u've dun nuthin about that either.

U need 2 wake up out of ur surreal "sad life" ways n realise t real world takes no prisoners n shows no mercy...u need a massive injection of life in2 u n u also need 2 learn sum social skills, how 2 interact wiv utha people n certainly how 2 behave around people who care about u n r tryin 2 help u.

WAKE UP CALL 2 LIFE TIME ALLY...IGNORE IT AT UR PERIL...UR T 1 WHO WILL B HEADIN BACK UP NORTH IF U DO

[Ally]

I do not sort the kids out in the morning because Allison told me not to. What is the point of trying to do something when people tell you not to? And why are you saying this now, when I can't do it anyway because I have to go to work at 8am? Also I was keeping the place tidy and I still am a bit but soon I will be paying her £50 a week to stay there so it is not my job then, is it?

I did not mean to be rude by not talking to you, but I did not know that it is rude not to talk to people when I don't feel like it. And as for the babysitting, I did not pull out at the last minute, I simply told Anne about an hour after she had asked me that there was a problem because of all my stuff -NOT just my laptop but my toothbrush and stuff too would've been a problem because I can't take anything to work with me. So as for "meant" to babysit, maybe I shouldn't have changed my mind like that but I don't think I was "meant" to do anything as it's my choice if I babysit or not. I am working for Allison, not Anne.

If Anne changed her mind about me after seeing my lazy ways, then why did she praise me when I stayed in her house that week, and why has she not told me that herself? I prefer to hear things from the people themselves.

My job is actually full time so I can live on that money. Also, as for finding my own place, Allison told me before I can stay here and pay her. If she has changed her mind then I would like to know about it. Then in September I am going to university so what is the problem?

You should not assume that because I don't have social skills and I am different from other people, that it is because I am just shy, as you really don't know anything, and I have not told you because you have this attitude so you would probably not understand anyway.

[Sad?Old Hippie]

Well no one can say I didn't try..Ok Ave it ur way girl...reely hoped I'd get thru 2 u but I'm wastin my time...best of luck...ur gonna need it.

"Don't know anything"...know more than u think...remember I'm older n wiser n ave bin round t block a few times...ave a pretty good idea wots at t root of ur problems...as for attitude...hmmmmm...yeah ok...if u say so

When ur on t bus p'raps mayb u'll admit 2 urself I wos right but then again in ur own words"I'm never wrong"

A well known sayin...Dont bite t hand that feeds...u'd do well 2 learn it

Still ere if u need help...neva fall out wiv peeps n dont hold grudges...only eva tried 2 help u but u need 2 help urself first n start listenin 2 people...ur 19 Ally n in ur own words.."I've not done anything"...we're all a bit older n wiser than u n ave bin there n dun it

Lets leave it there yeah...cant b doin wiv on-line arguments...cant b doin wiv arguments full stop...theyre for people wiv attiudes!

N remember...Only A Surfa Kno's How It Feels!!!

[Ally]

I don't want to argue either. You haven't listened to me, or else you have and you don't want to admit it, but anyway, it would be really good if you could tell me what you want me to do. I have listened to everything you have said, even though I don't agree with all of it, but please tell me what you want me to do which in your opinion is the right thing. Because obviously you think I am doing everything wrong at the moment, although I don't know why.

And I am very grateful to you for helping me, I really am. I am sorry for ignoring you, I did not mean anything by it and I am still friends with you too. But apart from that, I still don't know what I have done to you.

[Sad?Old Hippie]

Originally Posted by Ally

I don't want to argue either. You haven't listened to me, or else you have and you don't want to admit it, but anyway, it would be really good if you could tell me what you want me to do. I have listened to everything you have said, even though I don't agree with all of it, but please tell me what you want me to do which in your opinion is the right thing. Because obviously you think I am doing everything wrong at the moment, although I don't know why.

And I am very grateful to you for helping me, I really am. I am sorry for ignoring you, I did not mean anything by it and I am still friends with you too. But apart from that, I still don't know what I have done to you.

Well at least this is a step in t right direction...

Haven't listened 2 u cause u neva ave anything 2 say...avin a conversation wiv u is a 1 way street n hard work at that...Yes u r doing everythin wrong...not just my opinion but every1 else who knows u down ere...we cant all b wrong n u right...

Will ave a talk wiv u at t weekend at Allisons but u need 2 realise that uve got 2 start listenin and take on board wot we're all sayin...we're right...we know t real world inside out unlike u...u ave 2 b prepared 2 admit u r not "always right" n LISTEN N LEARN uthawise it will just b a waste of time...

We r only tryin 2 help cause we care...we're not avin a go at u or anythin like u mite b thinkin...u seriously need 2 wake up 2 real life...I kno u said u dont like t real world but u r in it wetha u like it or not n its betta 2 b equiped wiv t right tools 2 get thru it than not...we can give u those if u will just LISTEN N LEARN...

Apology accepted...hope uve learned a lesson from it...

No Wurris...talk 2 u at t weekend face 2 face so all these lurvely Surf Newquay peeps dont get 2 kno ALL ur business...

[seaslave1]

Jeeeezzzzz....chill folks.

don't konw what I've missed over the past few days, and I'm not really interested, but the words 'QUIT WHILE YOUR'E AHEAD' springs to mind. You guys are gonna seriously fall out if ya don't shut up bickering. It could get serious if you both say any more.

Be kind to eachother..........................please xxxx